So take this time to establish boundaries. How To Do It: Get into any configuration that seems comfy — you can climb into bed, cozy up on the couch, get into the shower, etc. As things heat up, move onto other positions. How To Do It: To do the high five, get onto your hands and knees and have one person with a penis or strap-on penetrate you from behind while the other person kneels in front of you. Give the kneeling person oral sex.

The need for strong, independent local journalism is more urgent than ever. Please support the city we love by joining Friends of Willamette Week. The reader asks, "I just want to know if it's normal or healthy for me to involve another guy in bed. And while the details change, I hear some version of, "is X normal? Short answer: Yes! Whatever you're into is probably fine, as long as it only involves consenting adults. But given how stigmatized everything to do with sex and sexuality is, it's no surprise we worry about what stepping even an inch off the mainstream path means about us.

A straight guy friend of mine recently expressed interest in a guy-guy-girl threesome. I've always been perplexed this. What do the guys get out of it? Um, hot sex with a game lady? More people to high-five afterward?

Here are two facts about threesomes: 1. I am so all about it! I think that threeways are super fun and a great way to learn more about yourself, your partner if you have one , and your sexuality. So what are some good threesome tips to ensure that your experience is more on the super hot than the super awkward side of things? Some, like sex educator Reid Milhalko , have a lot of experience.