Whether you're giving it or receiving it, oral sex is one of the sexiest things you can do with a partner. You're close, you're wet, you're naked, and you're probably pretty close to orgasming or making your partner orgasm too. Now regardless of if an orgasm is the end goal or not because, no, it doesn't have to be , knowing what to do and how to do it when giving and receiving oral sex is important—for both you and your partner. You want to make it the best experience ever, and that's where we come in, friends. Whether you're here because you have a hard time orgasming, you're unsure how to articulate what you want to your partner, or you just want to learn some new tips and tricks, we've gotchu. Presenting: The 60 best and greatest oral sex tips of all time.

Let's face it, they all love it. Men love, love, love a good blow job. It's just mind-boggling how happy a well-executed BJ makes them. And if you're reading this post, you probably know this already. Being able to deliver this treat to your man will make you the queen of the bedroom and probably the queen of his heart as well. Start off slowly.

For her, oral sex could mean the difference between orgasmic bliss and a ho-hum time in the sack. In fact, most women need a variety of stimulation, including oral, in order to orgasm , research from the Kinsey Institute shows. Start with her on her hands and knees, and then slide under her like an auto mechanic. You can then spend time warming her up as you have access to everything she wants touched and licked.

Thankfully, learning to give a great oral sex is something anyone can do overtime. Using these 10 techniques, you can feel confident in your skills and leave your man weak at the knees afterward. Why make your mouth do all the work when you can literally lend your man a helping hand? Most men love it when you throw in a hand job while you swirl your tongue around him and press your lips to his penis. Use your fingers to get him worked up at the base while your mouth does the work at the top of his shaft.