Well, maybe my friends were just sluts, but we never did that. We preferred to daydream about our first fuck. Or something equally embarrassing. But our idyllic deflowering fantasies rarely came to fruition.

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All Rights Reserved. Terms of use and Your privacy. Do you regret losing your virginity to the person you lost it to? How old were you when you first had sex, and did you use protection? And how would you describe Black gay love?

There are SO many different reactions you could have, both emotional and physical, to having sex for the first time, all of which are completely normal. As long as you use protection and are percent sure you're ready, you're in a good place. To be even more prepared, though, keep reading to find out things that no one tells you about losing your virginity. If you're thinking of having sex or if you've already started, you'll want to start talking to your doctor about it.