Mostly, though, it's hard to imagine what sex will actually be like when it happens — beyond what you learned in sex education class. That's why we talked to 24 people to find out exactly what first time sex was like, and what they wished they'd known going in. Before we dive into their real-life experiences, let's set the record straight: Below are some of the most common questions people ask about virginity. What does losing your virginity mean?

Despite what you see on TV and in movies, having sex for the first time is rarely romantic, pleasant, or sexy. Sure, it can be—in theory. It was with my boyfriend on our one-year anniversary. My anxiety got the best of me, and I freaked out and told him to stop after the first thrust. Plus, I was the first one of my friends to have sex, so no one could tell me what to expect. A week later, we did it for real, and I felt cool for finally doing it.

You'll find the experience enhanced if both of you are pleasing each other. Virgin losing and receptive, listen as well as talk. Don't let your preconceived notions of what sex is supposed to be prevent you from exploring losing sexuality or hers. It's ok site you try something and it doesn't work for you; it's less fun to want to try something but be afraid to.

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